Source: Speakup
SANTANA ON WOMEN AND LOVE
Carlos Santana was interviewed by Marcel Anders. Here he talks about his views on women, men and his then fiancée (now new wife), drummer Cindy Blackman, in particular:
Q: Talking about women, you said: “There’s a big war happening right now with females and men. A lot of females seem like they have war paint on their faces. “Why?” What’s wrong?
A: That’s a good question. I think that a lot of women tend to generalize, but…just like I can’t say that all white people don’t have rhythm, you can’t say that all black people can sing and dance, it’s not good to generalize. All I know is that when we play music, women forget all about the war and they start dancing, the war paint comes off, because it’s an illusion anyway.
War paint is fear. Love is love. Fear is fear. If you have problems with one man who cheated on you or he did this or he did that, you can’t say that all men do that! I mean, we utilize music to bring a sense of unity and harmony and forgiveness. Women are like the weather you don’t know what’s going to happen. And men are like mountains, the only time something changes in a man is when there’s an earthquake. I love both of it. I love the male and the female, the female and the male energy. And the best thing that I can say about that is: “Honor me for what God made me, and I’ll honor you for what God made you. Don’t be at war with me, because you’ll be at war with yourself anyway.”
Q: Says the man who just fell in love again!
A: exactly. I totally fell in love with someone who can really, really, really play. She’s probably in the top three in the world who can play with Herbie Hancock or Wayne Shorter. Cindy (Blackman) can play. To her it’s a very profound profession: no, it’s a very profound gift, not a profession. And yes, falling in love with Cindy means when I go onstage it just feels like the 7UP has more bubbles.
Q: Does that mean she’s part of your band now?
A: maybe in the future, but right now I have learned not to mix domestic rhythm with the stage, because it’s very difficult to say: ‘Hey what were you doing with that beat? And then come home and: “Hey, can we make love? “So it’s not wise to mix business, music and profession with romance. It’s a recipe for disaster. Maybe in the future when we’re a little bit more mature in spirit…I would like to have a separate band with her and approach different music, not the Santana music.
Q: What made your propose on stage in front of all these people?
A: It was spontaneous. I saw her play and there is something about her, it excites me to believe that I can wake up with her every morning. We can talk for hours about Mikes Davis and Tony Williams and Wayne Shorter. And then we can talk about children, we can talk about flowers – or we cannot talk and just drink from each other’s eyes. I know that in the future we will write an album together, but right now the best way to describe Cindy is: she’s an angel sent from heaven to me.